I really enjoyed this piece from Longreads. Of course, it’s on a theme I enjoy contemplating. It made me want to dine alone in public now and then, even though I have little objection to room service when I am traveling alone.
We’re eating alone more often than in any previous generation. But why should a meal on our own be uninspired? Why shouldn’t the French saying “life is too short to drink bad wine” still apply?
mexi minnesotana 
When eating alone in public, what should one do (other than enjoying the meal)? People- watch, “play” on phone, read a book, write on laptop…I’ve seen people do all of these, but I have issues with each. I don’t want to be seen as staring while people watching, I’m not a “play on phone” kind of person, and I have trouble concentrating on a book or writing in a noisy setting or with a lot of people around. What’s considered to be socially acceptable, I’m wondering…
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Hi Becky. I have thought about this as well. I enjoy people watching, though one has to be subtle to do this well without appearing to stare. I used to bring a journal or notebook with me if I were dining in a cafe alone. Then I could “work” or think or take notes in between actual service of the beverage or the meal. Other than that I would immerse myself in enjoying the food slowly, and try to worry too much about others’ perceptions. There is an art to it though, and I don’t like to be “that person” who is unable to detach from her phone. I notice that a lot as well, but I think that is a poor substitute for being more present during a meal.
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All very interesting reflections. I need to practice this and see how it goes:)
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