This week I have the privilege of enjoying some time near Lake Superior. My friend is attending a conference and I will be caring for her two kitties (one of which is pictured below) while she is away.

It was lovely to have some time to catch up with her for a day and a half or so before she leaves. It struck me how similar our career pivots have been in recent years. She is about 5 years ahead me. And while she left a tenured professor position at a University and I left a corporate position, I can tell we have some “threads” in common.
For one, we are finding that recruiters and hiring managers do not always “get” what to do with our experience. As knowledge workers, we often specialize in a particular area for a period of time, say 10-15 years. But then some of us get an “itch” to extend our skills, to stretch outside our comfort zones, or maybe to find work that speaks to our souls. Perhaps we found ourselves living someone else’s idea of success. At the time, it made sense to take that road, to fully immerse ourselves in an area of expertise. And then suddenly (or gradually) we grow out of it.
Many people think we are crazy. “Why the hell would you leave a secure job as a professor (or a clinical research operations manager, in my case)?”
Why indeed?

Futurists often tell us that the work place is changing. We should expect to make major career moves every 5-10 years. It keeps us nimble, fresh and innovative. But the reality is that structurally, recruitment and sourcing professionals are not hiring this way. It is still about “ticking the boxes” and following a formulaic approach to look for talent, sadly.
My own timeline is such that I will likely head back to full time work soon, probably within the next month or two. I was feeling sad about this a few weeks ago, wondering if I had failed at this attempt at self-employment because I had not planned well enough. I had not narrowed down my niche properly perhaps, or I may thrive under conditions where I have a bit more structure than this wide open landscape.
However it is not failure if we learn from our experiences. And this time I will go back to the drawing board understanding myself better. I know more about the support I need to be productive. I have piloted and tested some ideas and workshop offerings. I have enrolled in yoga teacher training. I am moving forward.
Even if I do need to regroup and re-capitalize a bit, the dream endures. This retreat is an opportunity to go inward to get clear about my deepest longings. I am so grateful for the time and space for this process.
cristy@meximinnesotana.com
Wonderful spot for a personal retreat! I miss the Great Lakes every day…
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Where do you live now, Becky? I’ve never been here for longer than an extended weekend. So grateful to have a bit more time to explore this week.
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I live in Texas, not too far from Dallas (no “real” lakes). In Michigan I most recently lived near Lake Superior in Sault Ste. Marie and grew up near Lake Huron, in the Lower Peninsula.
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Ah, beautiful. At least in Dallas you don’t get as many snow and ice storms. 🙂 I loved the Lake Huron area when we explored only briefly.
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Actually, I take that. Hubby and I did a “circle tour” around Lake Superior two summers ago. But with only one day for each stop, we didn’t have enough time to savor a longer stay.
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Enjoy your time!
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It’s not failure; it’s experiencing an option that opened other realms for you. I’ve been there too, My experiences were quite therapeutic, resulted in a lot of self-growth and that was a bonus to my resume. Much respect for your stepping out of the “norm.”
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Thank you for saying that! It does feel like it has been a therapeutic experience and I am more ready for what is next. I appreciate your comment.
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